The writer of the following email didn’t ask for advice and probably doesn’t need any. She’s figured things out very Read More
I tell people what to do. I always expect to receive the best share. I always expect to play by Read More
Name: DState: COAge: 43Comment: I’ve been seeing a woman (let’s call her Jean) for the past month or so. We Read More
Name: QuinnState: IAAge: 47Comment: Do you think a guy who says he prefers to “text” you and comes up with Read More
Name: Should I Be FriendsState: Texas Age: 29Comment: Dear Moxie, I met this guy on OKCupid 3 months ago. It Read More
Chances are, nothing in today’s post is uniquely originally. I do not claim to have been the first person to Read More
Who said you have to find a man and get married by 30 (or else)? Here is a list of black women over 40 years old who Read More
Even though we spend all day, every day in our own skin, most of us don’t know ourselves. Many of Read More
Name: NOMAD898 | | Location: Edison , NJ |Question: Hi! I cant ask the question without telling the story. So please Read More
Name: Anne | | Location: Chicago , IL |Question: My boyfriend of a little over 2 years says he loves Read More
a couple of things dawned on me while at the house party i referenced in monday’s entry: 1. buffalo chicken dip really stings Read More
I’m baaack… after my traumatic break-up that was worst than a lifetime movie, I have finally returned to the real world and Read More
I know, the first thing you’re thinking is my title of this blog is bullshit. Well first of all, calm Read More
So I was thinking, remember when I said I was giving up on online dating in my last blog? No? Read More
Let’s just go ahead and set the ninjanet on fire. I think Langston Hughes’ poem “A Dream Deferred” is a Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
I watched the Dark Girls documentary on Oprah’s OWN last night. It’s a documentary that explores the intricacies of being a dark Read More
The war on women’s rights is unsettling and downright frightening. But are we really hearing the true views of American Read More
Awhile back, I wrote a guest post over at The G Manifesto titled Porn Doesn’t Philosophize. I’ve been corresponding with a Read More
Today I got to celebrate with a friend on her 21st birthday. It was truly an awesome day, nothing spectacular, Read More
So you’ve been going out at night, racking up phone numbers like crazy. You’ve decided that you’re going to call Read More
I love getting fan mail. A young man from the USA asked me an interesting question. “Dear single guy. How Read More
A few posts back, I said that you need initial attraction before you attempt to game. Now it’s time to Read More
We cruise, date, shop and even dig up dirt on perspective dates on the internet. Gays seem to love the Read More
It’s been a long time coming. I’ve been meaning to write it for ages. But somehow I just kept putting Read More
It is funny how you believe everything is fine and deep inside you understand nothing is.It is funny how you Read More
Scott Ian of Anthrtax had this story to tell about Gene Simmons of Kiss: I heard a story about Gene Read More
I always like to look at the way that I got my lays in college versus the way that I Read More
