Dear Terry: I’m a 50 year old single woman (who looks and acts 35!) and have been “seeing” a man Read More
People often ask me why I never go into my own Comments section and respond or partake in the banter Read More
Forged by all the years I’ve been putting words to the page, and tempered by a series of excellent and Read More
A while back this video made the rounds: It documents an amateur boxing match between a male Marine and a Read More
Only the best of men will be able to relate to today’s post. A man gets around enough, he knows Read More
I have been married (for the second time) for nine years to a man who was a virgin when I Read More
Since you present yourself to know so much about men and their behavior, please explain to me why my husband Read More
I hope I don’t get arrested for telling this story. Here goes nothing…. As is usually the case, my dismal Read More
So no one accuses me of writing today’s post about one person in particular, let the record show, the “you” Read More
The only thing I can write about today is the moment I just experienced meeting my six month old niece Read More
It’s no secret that I attended an HBCU. I went to the one that everybody either loves or hates but Read More
Once upon at time not long ago, I stumbled upon a most interesting conversation. This was a conversation being held by Read More
There are many things in life that I’m good at. Being sexxy is one of them. Being gangsta is another. Read More
Let me borrow the microphone today. Mmkay? Mmkay. Today, class, I’d like to talk about habits. But to make sure Read More
That damn Beyonce. At this point, I honestly think she makes songs strictly to drive me crazy. Beyonce “4″ album Read More
Dear Russian Mates, I was combing through the desk in our home office for a bill I thought I had misplaced Read More
Each day, I find myself thinking “I’m never going to get married” at least once. Over the past few days, Read More
There are a lot of things I don’t miss about college. Trying to fake my way through math class, for Read More
I constantly asked questions about body language when it comes to being more successful with women. No I believe that Read More
This week, I was a guest on a fantastic NPR segment about race and dating. A woman had written into a local Read More
This weekend, I made a fantastic discovery that has rocked my world. Mr. C and I went out with a Read More
I was discussing the issue of sex and dating recently with a single woman. Frustrated she asked, “If I have sex too Read More
The other night at dinner, just for fun, my guy friends started guessing how much my purse cost. It was Read More
I just devoured the book All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right. I wandered into Borders yesterday Read More
Our second question in the series comes from the beautiful island of Martinique! “What do you do when your boyfriend wants Read More
I went to the movies by myself to see The September Issue, a documentary about how Vogue magazine’s ever-expanding September issue Read More
So let me just throw a shout out there to all the Crazy Guys who get caught up in the Read More
As if hooking up wasn’t already confusing enough, the Internet now offers yet another way to meet people, so it Read More
