Who said you have to find a man and get married by 30 (or else)? Here is a list of black women over 40 years old who Read More
I’ve lived and dated throughout the United States, but since 2016, I’ve been happily settling into the culture and climate of Read More
I like to think that my words of wisdom (I use that word lightly) are useful to all of the Read More
2003-2012: General David Petraeus may be the most successful American commander of this millenium. He masterminded the successful “surge” against Iraqi Read More
So, you’re in a relationship rut, and aren’t feeling super alive? Wondering if you and your hubby will make it Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
“She looks just like her father.” I flushed every time I heard these words, hoping the discomfort I felt was Read More
‘They think it’s their game or their state or whatever. But I wonder if they stopped to think that it’s Read More
A few weeks ago I wrote to Santy, begging for a “stay of execution” and either there really is a fat, Read More
In the bedroom, on facebook, looking at some of the girls I’ve fucked. Lost a lot of them because of Read More
“SOMERSAULT, BITCHES!” Puerto Rico comes flying across the room, knocks over everything on our table, lands head first onto the Read More
I bust open the door with one swift man-kick to it’s balls…. Me: “Your God has arrived.” My loyal subjects: Read More
I come home, those fuckers are already wasted. I desperately need to catch up. I do the ceremonial superhero pose Read More
Self-handicapping was studied extensively in the 80’s and 90’s. It’s fully recognized by psychologists that has been found to have Read More
With finals in the rear view mirror, Miss Daisy can’t help but see the parellels between standardized testing and the Read More
There are hundreds of different methods and ways to start a conversation with women. Many of them, I discuss in my Read More
A first date is probably the most common way to develop a relationship between men and women. Although some people Read More
Dear Bitter Single Guy: First I must write that you really aren’t so bitter after all. From your posts I read Read More
Dear Bitter Single Guy: I need your advice. I have a friend who is older than me, I call her my Read More
Dear Bitter Single Guy: (Sorry in advance for any typos, I’m typing this from my iPhone) I am a formerly bitter Read More
Dear Bitter Single Guy: First off, I’ll give you the background of my situation. I’m a guy and I was in a Read More
Dear Bitter Single Guy: My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years. For the past year I’ve been having Read More
Dear Bitter Single Guy: I’ve been dating this guy for about two months now. He’s sweet, funny, attractive, and just Read More
A couple of nights ago I was out with a close friend at this spot on King St West in Read More
Dear Dr. Ellen: Our oldest, soon to be 5, is going to kindergarten next year. I teach in a middle Read More
