Play Your Position
For now though no comments till I can get back on my writing rhythm.
Were to begin, ah my young protege the Rookie (who by the way started his own blog), is always good for a laugh when we’re out on the town. It’s almost been one year coming up this summer and the kid has grown by leaps and bounds. Its crazy to think that this is the same guy who would take forever to even approach a girl but now rolls Solo Dolo on the reg for extra credit. Still though the lessons and the way “I” teach game at times escape him.
Last weekend we’re out in this grimy spot in Arlington where gaming is simple. I noticed an attractive cute little hipster chick with some Spanish flavor and she’s with this nerdy Asian chick. I tell Rookie I want the cute one and he replies that he’s NOT winging butterface Asian. What!?! There have been some other times of slight hesitation when I call dibs on the more attractive and start gaming her. Rookie will start strong on her friend but will quickly fade and fall back.
He reminds me of so many other young cats new to the game that understand a little more than the “Chapter Ones”. They get a little rhythm and feel that now they deserve to only holla at Zoe Saldana type mommies. Rookie please, you better play your position and pay your dues!
You know how many turtles and butters I had to spit game to coming up with my mentor?!? I’ve been doing this thing for over eight years now, if it’s just me and him out, I think I’ve more than earned the right to call dibs on the more attractive one. This is DC the chances of two hot chicks hanging out together and both being single are about the same as getting mauled by a polar bear and a grizzly bear in the same day! So if I want to talk to a girl and her friend is a blind paraplegic in a wheelchair, you better put braille on the back of your jeans and give that bitch a lap dance. If the girl I want came into the bar with a mountain goat then brotha I hope you got all your shots.
I told this to the Rookie and he responded with the thinking of most men. “I feel that I put in more effort to keep the conversation going and try harder with a hot girl I’m attracted to”…. DON’T WE ALL! But that’s the thing, your game / energy level shouldn’t be noticeably higher when talking to a more attractive woman. You’re game should be the same level talking to 10 as it is a 5. Even, practiced like you’ve done this shit before. Women are masters at this, they will flirt with a guy and that they have no interest in give him their phone numbers and never really intend on ever talking to them again. But think about it like this, good luck running long game on a 10 if you can’t keep a 5 interested enough for your boy to do what he’s got to do. You want to be a rock star? You’ve got to start off playing dungy dive bars that smell like puke or (Liberty Taverns in Arlington ewwww) before you’re selling out Madison Square Garden three nights in a row.
It’s all relative, you’ve decided to enter the world of the ‘long con”. It’s like being a professional gambler, the suckers try to get lucky on one hand (approach) or win big in one night. We on the other hand measure our success over a longer period of time, a year. That’s when it starts to make sense then that with this approach you’ll have to holla at the less attractive girl but in terms of a year the laws of averages will balance everything out until you’re good enough to approach higher point values as an individual, bt that doesn’t happen from weekend to weekend. Until then use every approach every interaction to work on your act. So when you bump into Zoe, it’ll be automatic
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