It’s estimated that 60% of black girls are molested as children. SIXTY PERCENT. It could be even more because a Read More
Mary, Mary, Mary. I somehow thought that with all of the growth you exude that you had come farther than What’s Read More
Autumn is alsmost here. Leaves are turning and nights are gradually getting colder. For those of us above the equator, Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
There are untold stories of deep emotional entanglements in all of us. Much of the time, we don’t realize their Read More
I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
By now, most of the Ninjerati is aware that Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted that it’s “N***as in paris for real” from Read More
People make fun of Canada all the time- as they should. We’re a nation of ridiculous people, places, and things. People Read More
On “tha twittahs” a few days ago, I questioned how it was possible that Pitbull could still be relevant in Read More
This week, I was a guest on a fantastic NPR segment about race and dating. A woman had written into a local Read More
This weekend, I made a fantastic discovery that has rocked my world. Mr. C and I went out with a Read More
I was discussing the issue of sex and dating recently with a single woman. Frustrated she asked, “If I have sex too Read More
The other night at dinner, just for fun, my guy friends started guessing how much my purse cost. It was Read More
I just devoured the book All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right. I wandered into Borders yesterday Read More
Our second question in the series comes from the beautiful island of Martinique! “What do you do when your boyfriend wants Read More
I went to the movies by myself to see The September Issue, a documentary about how Vogue magazine’s ever-expanding September issue Read More
So let me just throw a shout out there to all the Crazy Guys who get caught up in the Read More
To many people, religion is something close to the heart and even when they seek out a partner, they would Read More