Who said you have to find a man and get married by 30 (or else)? Here is a list of black women over 40 years old who Read More
A difficulty of being human is considering the long term view. We were crafted in a world where surviving till Read More
Girls always have some silly measure by which they gauge your potential for long term investment or short term fling. Read More
A difficulty that many people attempt is to purge poisonous friendships. There are many reasons for this. Sometimes people convince Read More
Living in DC you quickly learn that many are proud of their job titles. The DC circuit is filled with Read More
A comment from a reader questioned on my previous post, which I stated that once girl is slotted you into the not-sexually-attraced zone, Read More
At the risk of sounding pessimistic [please trust that I am NOT a Scrooge], the reality is that the next Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
On most days, weeks, months, my libido is raging like an 18 year olds. My every waking moments are filled with Read More
Okay so a couple seals have apparently been broken and some trumpets sounded, with the thousands of birds falling from Read More
I’ve been thinking about sex. A lot. Specifically, I’ve been thinking about our sisters in sex—prostitutes. Whores, ho’s, working girls, Read More
Though I live in Brooklyn, for the last month, I’ve been in Los Angeles taking care of family and it Read More
Mary, Mary, Mary. I somehow thought that with all of the growth you exude that you had come farther than What’s Read More
Autumn is alsmost here. Leaves are turning and nights are gradually getting colder. For those of us above the equator, Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
I’m baaack… after my traumatic break-up that was worst than a lifetime movie, I have finally returned to the real world and Read More
I know, the first thing you’re thinking is my title of this blog is bullshit. Well first of all, calm Read More
So I was thinking, remember when I said I was giving up on online dating in my last blog? No? Read More
Let’s just go ahead and set the ninjanet on fire. I think Langston Hughes’ poem “A Dream Deferred” is a Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
I watched the Dark Girls documentary on Oprah’s OWN last night. It’s a documentary that explores the intricacies of being a dark Read More
The war on women’s rights is unsettling and downright frightening. But are we really hearing the true views of American Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
