Just once, I would like a girl to tell me the truth about her friends. Seems like every time I Read More
In the last few months I have made a number of very important decisions. A number of them have been Read More
When you reach your twenties you begin to ask yourself a number of philosophical questions.What is my purpose.What is the Read More
A difficulty of being human is considering the long term view. We were crafted in a world where surviving till Read More
Girls always have some silly measure by which they gauge your potential for long term investment or short term fling. Read More
This is one of the more illuminating character traits of girls to beta men, who would never try to broach the Read More
I just got off the phone with a writer from London. She was interviewing me for an up coming story Read More
A comment from a reader questioned on my previous post, which I stated that once girl is slotted you into the not-sexually-attraced zone, Read More
At the risk of sounding pessimistic [please trust that I am NOT a Scrooge], the reality is that the next Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
I have a quiet list of turn-offs. I’ve kept it quiet because it really makes no sense to anyone but Read More
I’ve always wanted a dog. Even in my younger days when I lived at home and my little sister begged Read More
I’ve been thinking about sex. A lot. Specifically, I’ve been thinking about our sisters in sex—prostitutes. Whores, ho’s, working girls, Read More
Though I live in Brooklyn, for the last month, I’ve been in Los Angeles taking care of family and it Read More
Mary, Mary, Mary. I somehow thought that with all of the growth you exude that you had come farther than What’s Read More
Autumn is alsmost here. Leaves are turning and nights are gradually getting colder. For those of us above the equator, Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
People by nature are an inquisitive bunch. We all take several flights of fancy throughout the course of the day. Read More
a couple of things dawned on me while at the house party i referenced in monday’s entry: 1. buffalo chicken dip really stings Read More
I’m baaack… after my traumatic break-up that was worst than a lifetime movie, I have finally returned to the real world and Read More
I know, the first thing you’re thinking is my title of this blog is bullshit. Well first of all, calm Read More
So I was thinking, remember when I said I was giving up on online dating in my last blog? No? Read More
Let’s just go ahead and set the ninjanet on fire. I think Langston Hughes’ poem “A Dream Deferred” is a Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
I watched the Dark Girls documentary on Oprah’s OWN last night. It’s a documentary that explores the intricacies of being a dark Read More
The war on women’s rights is unsettling and downright frightening. But are we really hearing the true views of American Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More