Top 5 Reasons Her Sexual Past Shouldn’t Matter (Reason 1)
We had a little tongue-in-cheek fun last week discussing 4 of the top 5 reasons a woman’s sexual past shouldn’t matter to a man. But now that we’re down to the #1 reason, I want to be serious for bit. There really is one reason and one reason only that allows you to ignore a woman’s sexual history and retain any semblance of manhood.
#1 You’re not going to marry her
Men come to game, the red pill, or masculine frame for multiple reasons. Some want better marriages, some want to overhaul their beta outlook on life, and some want to crush as much ass as they can before their pecker stops working.
Reason number 1 really only applies to players who have sworn to be eternal bachelors.
Not surprisingly, no one is identified more often as husband material by women than a man who is good with women and has options. A man who can have any woman he wants – and proves it – is considered to be the ultimate catch, if he promises to give his resources to one woman indefinitely. Even women who scowl at and make verbal assaults against men who tap booty-a-plenty do so with wet panties in tow. It’s the way of women.
The benefit to the astute player and confirmed bachelor (other than the obvious) is that he’s free to take women as they are. Without the added pressure of choosing a wife who will be a good role model for his children and likely to be faithful, a man can cross off one of the major stressors of the modern man.
If you do not intend to wife a woman up, she should be exempt from the vetting process. You wouldn’t interview a woman for a sales position in cosmetics by asking her a bunch of engineering questions, so you shouldn’t casually date a woman and then value her based on her wifely qualities or lack thereof. It’s not fair to you to go through disappointment after disappointment, and I’m pretty sure she didn’t sign up for that either.
For all the ranting and raving about promiscuous women that goes on at UMan and in other places in the Manosphere, there are fine women everywhere. Yeah, I get ahold of the manjawed feminazi from time to time, but the vast majority of the women I date are downright pleasant – regardless of their sexual history.
Again, only if you’re a player and a sworn bachelor, here are a few suggestions I have when it comes to a woman’s sexual history.
1. Never, ever, ever ask her a question about her sexual history. If you’re not going to marry her, this knowledge does you absolutely no good.
2. When she volunteers it – and she will – never ask follow-up questions regarding the holes (heh) in her story. She will leave out the guys she’s trying to forget, which means the story she casually tells you on Friday night will be incongruent with the one she told last month. It’s ok. She’s not trying to deceive you; she’s trying to deceive herself. This instantly disqualifies her as wife material, but it has nothing to do with her being a pleasure to be around.
3. When a woman starts a story with “The guy’s I’ve been with have always…” the first thing that goes through a man’s mind is “Holy shit. She has a big enough sample size to notice a trend?” You should probably just let this go in one ear and out the other. I usually listen to her and ask questions designed to make her feel comfortable. “Well, I can see why guys always go straight for your boobs. They’re perfect! Out of all the guys you’ve been with, has anyone ever complained about your perfect rack? Didn’t think so!” By saying things like this, I’m giving her a compliment and showing her that I’m not concerned with her sexual past. She feels comfortable, I feel the inside of her vagina again, and all is well with the world.
Mentu’s Fifth Law of Dickatry: An extensive sexual history does not show women who they are and what they want; it shows what they are and who they want. Oblige them.
4. Never try to outslut a slut. Don’t attempt to one-up her stories with one of your own. I swear to God even if you had a career as a porn star and she lived in a convent until age 21, there’s a decent chance you’re going to lose. The shit I’ve heard come out of the mouths of “good girls” would shock you. That’s why I bash betas and marriage so much. Until you’ve learned how to pull info from a woman like a double-agent spy, I’ll guarantee you’re getting more than you bargained for.
5. Never add her to facebook, never google her name, never ask her friends questions about her, and never go through her phone. If you do, 99% of the time you won’t like what you see or hear. Just relax and enjoy her company until she finds someone better to do. Maintain this frame, and you’ll be the first call she makes when she breaks up with her new boyfriend. Then you can welcome her back with open arms, assign her a place in your harem, and carry on like a champ.
6. Never slut shame her. Let it freaking go, enjoy her company, be good to her (yeah, I said be good to her) and be that open-minded modern man women love to bang. There’s no credible or profitable reason to behave in any other manner, since your only goal is steady pussy from an attractive woman with a tolerable personality.
7. If she’s a life-long local girl, you will undoubtedly run in to an ex or two of hers along the way. When she says “I dated that guy for a while”, simply say “He looks like a cool guy. I’m glad I’m with a girl who makes good personal decisions.” If she wants to cricize him, let her, but don’t join in. Make her feel good about herself, and she’ll feel more comfortable doing nasty shit with you. Women want to be sluts, but they don’t want to be thought of as a slut. Help her out with that, and you’ll find yourself in a true win-win situation.
When you’re done with her, pass her to the beta on your left so the little darling can have that wedding she’s always dreamed about.
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