Alpha Answer: The Party
I’m sure all of you have been waiting for the answer to this with bated breath. There were a lot of comments, a lot of great feedback, and one of you even struck gold and hit the right answer! But first, some runners up.
Typical amogging can be easily handled with counter-amog tactics, but IMO this is just blatant disrespect. Fuck him up, even if it costs you the lay. Make the mofo an object lesson that no one disrespects you like that. Word will get around, and more ginas than the one you may lose will tingle.
Anonymous‘s answer here smacks of a man that has never actually been in a fight. I’m guessing he reads a lot of game blogs, knows a lot about game theory, but has very little actual field practice based on his misinterpretation and misunderstanding of social dynamics. Fights rarely work out well for anyone, and will do very little to make you “super sexy” in the eyes of women, unless you’re ending something dangerous, or you actually manage to knock down a dissenter with a “one-hitter-quitter”. Since both of those scenarios are very rare (doesn’t every beta white knight imagine himself fighting for a woman’s honor and then getting laid for it later?), its doubtful that tailoring a response based around them will yield you good results. Keep at though, and maybe get in the field a bit more, and you’ll get it.
Eyeball the douchebag with cool disdain then take the girl in hand with a firm but gentle “C’mon darling’, let’s get you out of those wet clothes…”
You pass.
Engage both, then turn to her, pointing your thumb back at the dude while laughing and ignoring him completely- “Can you believe this guy? I guess some dudes can’t handle their shit” Look him down with a not so innocent smirk. “Here, let’s go to the kitchen, I gotta clean this off”, take her hand and go.
Or…
Calmly take my suit jacket off, fold it, place it on the nearest table/chair/step, turn, and punch him out. Not a big fighter, but since this dude didn’t apologize or anything of the sort, he is going to get a little etiquette 101. I could care less about the girl at that point.
Fly, Fresh, And Young comes in with a solid response. What is the difference between him and the first guy? His first reaction is alpha as fuck and involves a diplomatic handling of the situation that leads to him getting laid. The physical response he advises next is also different in that it doesn’t have the white knighty “fight for her honor” vibe. He does what needs to be done and then washes his hands of it, acknowledging that he’ll probably lose the pussy in the process. His views of multiplicity (that there is an abundance of pussy waiting for him, and one girl doesn’t matter in the long run) helps him respond fearlessly here. Solid.
Depends. That’s grounds for an ass-whoopin’ in my book.
Mine too, Bronan.
Wow Dude, I’m not a PUA or anything (but practicing!) I have been in this situation before. In fact, the first few lines sound like my apartment LOL
Keep your cool, shoot the guy a disapproving look and smile to the girl. Take her hand and say “come help me clean this up.” Lead her to the bathroom, bed, whatever. Just drag her away, don’t stand there and let your clothes and game stale.
This is also a super solid response. It shows an aloof, above it all demeanor. You’re still in charge, and you let that guy do the leg work – making him look like the asshole he is instead of dragging yourself through the mud. Good answer.
My question is,what is a random dude doing coming down the stairs
Lol yeah! People never walk down stairs! hahahahaha. …
And The Winner Is
Chad Daring (props given)
Place your hand on his shoulder, squeeze just a bit, enough pressure to let him know you’re there.
“Excuse me friend, the two of us were having a conversation” said as deadpan as possible. The same voice your Dad used to use when he had to “talk to you about something” Condescending, but not dickish.
Use the hand on his shoulder to steer him to the side while stepping back into your spot infront of her.
The whole “imma fight him” mentality has a very high risk of making you look like an ass. Assuming its not your house, you dont know either of them. What if she knows him? She’s drunk, she’s not gonna process all of what just happened, she’s gonna see you, a stranger, swing on someone she knows.
“But he disrespected you”
dude is most likely drunk if its a crazy ass house party, drunks are ostensibly children. He’s an oaf. Disrespect implies malice. A drunk walking boner that sees a hot chick isn’t being malicious, he’s just stupid.
Address the man, make him look like a fool. Keep your calm, and in that classy way put him down and then take your woman and leave. He’s shamed, everyone thinks he’s a dickhole, you look like a boss, and you still get laid.
His point about fighting is spot on: In your head you think you’re a champion because you’re totally going to go Bruce Lee on his ass and he wont even see it coming and for the rest of the night dudes will be bringing you beer and every girl at the party will be hanging all over you! Nine times out of 10 it doesn’t work out that way, you both end up pretty beat up with neither of you actually “winning”, because the cops that have both of you in cuffs and in a police car came and did all the “winning” for you. It’s much better to show him that you don’t need to fight him to be better than him.
References
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