Just once, I would like a girl to tell me the truth about her friends. Seems like every time I Read More
Girls always have some silly measure by which they gauge your potential for long term investment or short term fling. Read More
A difficulty that many people attempt is to purge poisonous friendships. There are many reasons for this. Sometimes people convince Read More
Living in DC you quickly learn that many are proud of their job titles. The DC circuit is filled with Read More
When I was younger I used to be a hopeful young lad. I would look out upon the world and Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
On most days, weeks, months, my libido is raging like an 18 year olds. My every waking moments are filled with Read More
Okay so a couple seals have apparently been broken and some trumpets sounded, with the thousands of birds falling from Read More
After a long day of contemplating once again what the real problem of our society is (you could say just Read More
So you’ve realized you need to make some changes and really get something going in your life. That’s awesome. But Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
“She looks just like her father.” I flushed every time I heard these words, hoping the discomfort I felt was Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
There are untold stories of deep emotional entanglements in all of us. Much of the time, we don’t realize their Read More
I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
By now, most of the Ninjerati is aware that Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted that it’s “N***as in paris for real” from Read More
