While browsing the Twitter hashtag #blackwomen this past week I found myself shaking my head once again. A poster on Twitter, who ironically Read More
In the last few months I have made a number of very important decisions. A number of them have been Read More
When you reach your twenties you begin to ask yourself a number of philosophical questions.What is my purpose.What is the Read More
A difficulty of being human is considering the long term view. We were crafted in a world where surviving till Read More
Girls always have some silly measure by which they gauge your potential for long term investment or short term fling. Read More
I just got off the phone with a writer from London. She was interviewing me for an up coming story Read More
A comment from a reader questioned on my previous post, which I stated that once girl is slotted you into the not-sexually-attraced zone, Read More
At the risk of sounding pessimistic [please trust that I am NOT a Scrooge], the reality is that the next Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
On most days, weeks, months, my libido is raging like an 18 year olds. My every waking moments are filled with Read More
Mary, Mary, Mary. I somehow thought that with all of the growth you exude that you had come farther than What’s Read More
Autumn is alsmost here. Leaves are turning and nights are gradually getting colder. For those of us above the equator, Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
I watched the Dark Girls documentary on Oprah’s OWN last night. It’s a documentary that explores the intricacies of being a dark Read More
The war on women’s rights is unsettling and downright frightening. But are we really hearing the true views of American Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
