I was reading the news coverage of Jon and Kate’s divorce and I feel really bad for those eight kids. Read More
What is happiness? Is it being content?is it being in a good mood?is it being secure? is it all of Read More
The modern artist, he can’t care too much about his creations, we’re in a time of recycling, rebooting, trashing, rehashing Read More
That is the right of individuals to think it, talk about it, publish it, and live it. Even though I Read More
Breaking up is easier if one of you cheats, does something horrific to the other [violence / abuse ], or Read More
Last Saturday I went to a strip club for dinner. Out of the box thinking. For many this may seem Read More
I’m splayed across two seats on the subway ignoring her looks. She is giving me that lucrative window of initial Read More
A disastrously disease that feminism unleashed upon society was their complete disregard for young boys. From the moment feminism rained Read More
This is one of the more illuminating character traits of girls to beta men, who would never try to broach the Read More
I just got off the phone with a writer from London. She was interviewing me for an up coming story Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
There are untold stories of deep emotional entanglements in all of us. Much of the time, we don’t realize their Read More
I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
By now, most of the Ninjerati is aware that Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted that it’s “N***as in paris for real” from Read More
People make fun of Canada all the time- as they should. We’re a nation of ridiculous people, places, and things. People Read More
On “tha twittahs” a few days ago, I questioned how it was possible that Pitbull could still be relevant in Read More
And if you don’t believe in God, then feel free to substitute God for Allah, Kool-Aid, Jetskis, or whoever you Read More
