Though I live in Brooklyn, for the last month, I’ve been in Los Angeles taking care of family and it Read More
Much like Asher Roth, I loved college. It was a time of much growth, discovery, and beaucoup sarcasm plus I went to Read More
Every morning when I wake up, I brush my teeth, take a shower, get out and proceed to applying lotion Read More
I know a lot of people swear they don’t use the bathroom at work. Quite frankly I think they’re full Read More
It’s pretty ’til I had to shovel it. Unless you get all of your news from TMZ or BET, you’ve Read More
Each day, I find myself thinking “I’m never going to get married” at least once. Over the past few days, Read More
There are a lot of things I don’t miss about college. Trying to fake my way through math class, for Read More
When you’re first developing a friendship, it’s easy to stick to big areas of commonality in order to build the Read More
When I was in college, I didn’t spend much time reading Cosmo or researching “99 new sex positions for him.” Read More
Here at The Russian Mates, we love love. We love relationships, dating, crushes, all that good stuff. A lot of Read More
It is funny how you believe everything is fine and deep inside you understand nothing is.It is funny how you Read More
Scott Ian of Anthrtax had this story to tell about Gene Simmons of Kiss: I heard a story about Gene Read More
I always like to look at the way that I got my lays in college versus the way that I Read More
This is a follow-up post to the post about being humble. A lot of guys want to know how to Read More
Standing to my right is a disheveled drunken 22 year old guy. A bartender plops down a plate of barbecue Read More
Tom asks: Hi V, I think i might have a problem with the lesson of “focus on yourself, but don’t Read More
I recently read one of Style’s latest emails in which he suggests using or creating a fictional character to help Read More
The last week has been tough with approaching. Work has been busy and I have started part time graduated courses. Read More
Dear Sam: My husband is very good hearted and so am I. The problem is that we really have no Read More
So, I’m on a city bus leaving my low-paid job on the way to the crammed apartment I share with Read More
Last weekend, I accompanied my friend Lady A to go look at some mid-century rosewood furniture for her house. Mid-century Read More
I have been here in Alexandria, VA on my writing retreat for a little over two weeks now. I wanted Read More
The other day, I walked into my friend’s mother’s house and I immediately felt my spirits lifted. She lives in Read More
I constantly asked questions about body language when it comes to being more successful with women. No I believe that Read More
This week, I was a guest on a fantastic NPR segment about race and dating. A woman had written into a local Read More
This weekend, I made a fantastic discovery that has rocked my world. Mr. C and I went out with a Read More
I was discussing the issue of sex and dating recently with a single woman. Frustrated she asked, “If I have sex too Read More
The other night at dinner, just for fun, my guy friends started guessing how much my purse cost. It was Read More
