The “independent black woman” meme reveals a twisted brand of ignorance. The new fad amongst young white people online is… Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
By now, most of the Ninjerati is aware that Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted that it’s “N***as in paris for real” from Read More
People make fun of Canada all the time- as they should. We’re a nation of ridiculous people, places, and things. People Read More
On “tha twittahs” a few days ago, I questioned how it was possible that Pitbull could still be relevant in Read More
And if you don’t believe in God, then feel free to substitute God for Allah, Kool-Aid, Jetskis, or whoever you Read More
Two things dawned on me the other day while driving around and listening to Jay-Z’s “99 Problems” 1. This song Read More
Last weekend, I accompanied my friend Lady A to go look at some mid-century rosewood furniture for her house. Mid-century Read More
I have been here in Alexandria, VA on my writing retreat for a little over two weeks now. I wanted Read More
The other day, I walked into my friend’s mother’s house and I immediately felt my spirits lifted. She lives in Read More
I constantly asked questions about body language when it comes to being more successful with women. No I believe that Read More
This week, I was a guest on a fantastic NPR segment about race and dating. A woman had written into a local Read More
This weekend, I made a fantastic discovery that has rocked my world. Mr. C and I went out with a Read More
I was discussing the issue of sex and dating recently with a single woman. Frustrated she asked, “If I have sex too Read More
The other night at dinner, just for fun, my guy friends started guessing how much my purse cost. It was Read More
In many cases, the single periods in your life are also periods of transition. For one reason or another, you Read More
If you are just in the beginning phases of a new relationship, enjoy the ride. Developing a bond with somebody Read More
We surveyed more than 250 single adults last week to understand more about how HBO’s Sex and the City influenced dating. Here’s Read More
While chatting with a close friend recently, a topic made it’s way into our conversation about keeping old photos and Read More
I’ve got a few close friends who always seem to be whining about one thing or the other. It seems Read More
Before opting for dinner and a movie, determine what “personality” your date should reflect. Are you a dance-’til-you-drop diva or Read More
Ok, we’ll end the week with two young ‘uns, having some trouble. This is a pretty long request, but the Read More
These days when you want to break up with someone and is not willing to talk it over face to Read More
To many people, religion is something close to the heart and even when they seek out a partner, they would Read More
