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I like to think that my words of wisdom (I use that word lightly) are useful to all of the Read More
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I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
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On “tha twittahs” a few days ago, I questioned how it was possible that Pitbull could still be relevant in Read More