Has this ever happened to you? You’re out having fun (at a family party, a barbecue, a reunion, whatever), and Read More
Most men will never have to come face to face with a life or death situation to prove their feelings Read More
People often ask me why I never go into my own Comments section and respond or partake in the banter Read More
Forged by all the years I’ve been putting words to the page, and tempered by a series of excellent and Read More
A while back this video made the rounds: It documents an amateur boxing match between a male Marine and a Read More
We’ve all seen them in action. They are the cousins of the classic Uncle Tom persona. They are second cousins to what Read More
While browsing the Twitter hashtag #blackwomen this past week I found myself shaking my head once again. A poster on Twitter, who ironically Read More
The rates of suicide among black women are the lowest of any group. Why is this so, and why doesn’t Read More
– SATURDAY It was a good two weeks since I had seen *School Girl, so when she opened the door, Read More
Just once, I would like a girl to tell me the truth about her friends. Seems like every time I Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
On most days, weeks, months, my libido is raging like an 18 year olds. My every waking moments are filled with Read More
Okay so a couple seals have apparently been broken and some trumpets sounded, with the thousands of birds falling from Read More
After a long day of contemplating once again what the real problem of our society is (you could say just Read More
So you’ve realized you need to make some changes and really get something going in your life. That’s awesome. But Read More
I was watching a show on HBO lately that focuses on porn stars and their life. The girls that were Read More
Nutrition is important. Unless you’re rich you’re not going to be able to eat all of your meals at restaurants, Read More
We came across this survey of men at Askmen.com, and found a few disturbing figures, that we felt the need Read More
Mary, Mary, Mary. I somehow thought that with all of the growth you exude that you had come farther than What’s Read More
Autumn is alsmost here. Leaves are turning and nights are gradually getting colder. For those of us above the equator, Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
