Describe Yourself to Her (Using These Words)
I decided to hop online and go to match.com and review several profiles of men, just to see what other men are saying & doing in their profiles, since I’m currently coaching a man who’s had no luck with personal sites in the past.
Well, I took a look at about 5 profiles, from men… which is something I occasionally like to do, and over the past 10 years of doing so, I’ve noticed changing patterns & trends.
One of the first I opened was from a “goofy guy“. I say “goofy guy” because that’s exactly how he described himself, in his subject line and throughout his profile. In another profile I read, a man also described himself as “goofy” though he didn’t emphasize it as much as the first profile.
I really feel that it’s a mistake for a man to refer to himself as goofy– especially online where he’s trying to meet women who have never had any face time with him.
When a woman hears “goofy” she tends to think… flaky, dopey, weird, screwy, irresponsible, nutty and possibly even childish. Of course, these are NOT things a woman is attracted to. A “screwy, irresponsible, child” is simply NOT a sexy dynamic… it doesn’t paint a pretty picture in her mind.
However, as we’ve discussed, an attractive quality in a man, is being comical and the confidence to entertain, tell funny stories, convey humorous jokes and a man who compels attention and women:
The type of man that her friends will be envious of.
What type of adjectives describe this man?…
Captivating
Inspiring
Provocative
Pleasurable
Poignant
Enthralling
Enchanting
Impressive
Stimulating
Witty
Striking
Piquant
Clever
These are words that paint a much prettier picture in a woman’s mind. She is now envisioning a man that is educated and mentally stable, who’s interesting and can have a good time. She’ll be happy to take him home to meet her parents. She won’t have to worry about him doing something embarrassing on a date, or embarrassing her in front of her friends. She’s likely to have a good time with him.
Useful Resources:
Here’s How You Will Improve Your Confidence Today
You Never Lose Until You Give Up
Why Guys Shouldn’t Put Women Down
Boomers: How to Become More Attractive to Women
Why It Is REALLY All Your Fault
Why You Should Never Settle for Minimum Standards
Connecting With Women Through Conversation