Women Look For Reasons Not To Date You
It seems absurd i know, but it’s true. Girls, especially good looking ones, get besieged by men all the time for dates, and sexual encounters, and this one time we will tell you, being a high value man doesn’t mean that you will pass their infinite and infantile check lists of things they are screening for. There is no formula we can provide for you to pass these check lists, because every girl has something that will turn her off of you. When interacting with women, you are better to come at them with this knowledge, they are looking for reasons to not date you. They well seek it with the same intensity as a laser guided missile. It is desperate to hit its target. This is a girls way of screening. Her tests, not all of them are actual shit tests either, are constant until you make it past her check lists. How do you know you’ve gotten past the first set of tests? She will start chasing you, she’ll start contacting you endlessly. You will be in control for a while, now this of course is another test, can you successfully handle her new set of tests.
No matter how good with women you are, you will never be able to pick out all of her tests, women are quite manipulative and can send out a test in an aloof manner, with the guise of a joking or teasing around, you can tease back or respond thinking that you are just playing along, when in reality, you may have just got blown out, and they don’t always tell you. For what ever reason she might keep playing around, usually probably just to boost her malnourished over inflated ego.
The only defense in this, if you want to bang them, is con them. Much like our contributor HeManimal stated in his article about being a con man, this is all you’re doing. I have problems with the long con, i’m impatient, and i find it intolerable to talk to most girls, i dont like the taste of swallowing my own vomit. If they even mention babies, wanting babies or have them, i’m gone faster than speedy Gonzales.
In order to effectively by pass these tests use the tried and tested re-direct and being aloof. It is much better to pretend that you don’t care about much, or to reflect her questions and redirect to another topic. When she says something, anything that is asking about you, or says something about her life, you can either be aloof, and keep it simple like just saying cool, or you can agree and amplify, “yes, totally agree, i love babies, i want to have like 100 of them, can you do that?” or completely turn the tables, “that’s interesting, you know what i find interesting, how soda makes you have gas, and why it tastes so good, when did this become such a popular drink?”
She is always looking for reasons not to date/bang you. It’s the way womens brains are wired. The high value man, or alpha, triggers sexual tingles and desire, but ultimately he doesn’t give a shit what comes out of her mouth. He can make a connection with her, but avoidance, re-directing with accuracy something that is in tune with her feelings. Basically, you’ve got to take you’re desire out of it, pay attention to her like you would a dog, a brief flurry of affection, and then complete aloofness. It should sit at your lap loyally and with out effort expended.
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