Lately I’ve been in the middle of a whirlwind of productions and projects, which led me to hole myself up Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
“She looks just like her father.” I flushed every time I heard these words, hoping the discomfort I felt was Read More
If you’re known as a heart breaker, is it because you’re afraid to have your heart broken? After breaking up Read More
I’ve been hearing lots of conflicting thoughts on how to manage an online dating profile inbox. Here are the top Read More
It seems to me that many women judge men for a sports addiction and men just don’t understand why anything Read More
How often to do you turn down a potential relationship because the person in question isn’t your “type”? I recently Read More
I found myself strolling down a lamp-lit street sipping hot greasy dishwater topped with whipped cream. She was a perfectly built Read More
Maybe there are some people we are meant to love; some people that speak straight to your heart. Then again, Read More
People by nature are an inquisitive bunch. We all take several flights of fancy throughout the course of the day. Read More
a couple of things dawned on me while at the house party i referenced in monday’s entry: 1. buffalo chicken dip really stings Read More
I’m baaack… after my traumatic break-up that was worst than a lifetime movie, I have finally returned to the real world and Read More
I know, the first thing you’re thinking is my title of this blog is bullshit. Well first of all, calm Read More
So I was thinking, remember when I said I was giving up on online dating in my last blog? No? Read More
Let’s just go ahead and set the ninjanet on fire. I think Langston Hughes’ poem “A Dream Deferred” is a Read More
Have you ever wondered how separated parents or friends of yours keep it together and put on a good show Read More
Credits: This post was inspired by a comment on my own blog, so thank you readers for continuing to inspire Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
There are untold stories of deep emotional entanglements in all of us. Much of the time, we don’t realize their Read More
I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
By now, most of the Ninjerati is aware that Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted that it’s “N***as in paris for real” from Read More
