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Here at The Russian Mates, we love love. We love relationships, dating, crushes, all that good stuff. A lot of Read More
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I come home, those fuckers are already wasted. I desperately need to catch up. I do the ceremonial superhero pose Read More
Self-handicapping was studied extensively in the 80’s and 90’s. It’s fully recognized by psychologists that has been found to have Read More
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Awhile back, I believe that I said I would post one of my message exchanges with one of the women Read More
You may well have heard of ‘demonstrating value’ in the context of meeting and attracting women. Indeed, it is an Read More
Dear Sam: My husband is very good hearted and so am I. The problem is that we really have no Read More
So, I’m on a city bus leaving my low-paid job on the way to the crammed apartment I share with Read More
Last weekend, I accompanied my friend Lady A to go look at some mid-century rosewood furniture for her house. Mid-century Read More
I have been here in Alexandria, VA on my writing retreat for a little over two weeks now. I wanted Read More
The other day, I walked into my friend’s mother’s house and I immediately felt my spirits lifted. She lives in Read More
I constantly asked questions about body language when it comes to being more successful with women. No I believe that Read More
This week, I was a guest on a fantastic NPR segment about race and dating. A woman had written into a local Read More
This weekend, I made a fantastic discovery that has rocked my world. Mr. C and I went out with a Read More
I decided to hop online and go to match.com and review several profiles of men, just to see what other men Read More
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We’ve all been there, your mind rushes through a whole list of things you pre-planned to talk about – grasping Read More
This is very important because many of us do not know what to do, to spend quality time with our Read More
As holiday season has descended upon us, one very real reality is about to hit a large number of people Read More
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Dear Friends, Thank you for your questions. Please use the form above to ask a question. Remember, if you have Read More
Visit our “Women Speak” page. We’re looking for women writers. If you’re not one, then let your writer friends know. Read More
