Hi, Terry: Almost all my friends have steady relationships, and some are married, but I don’t even have anyone in Read More
Most men will never have to come face to face with a life or death situation to prove their feelings Read More
People often ask me why I never go into my own Comments section and respond or partake in the banter Read More
Forged by all the years I’ve been putting words to the page, and tempered by a series of excellent and Read More
A while back this video made the rounds: It documents an amateur boxing match between a male Marine and a Read More
Why do researchers feel the need to continually study the habits and trends of black women in particular as if Read More
We’ve all seen them in action. They are the cousins of the classic Uncle Tom persona. They are second cousins to what Read More
While browsing the Twitter hashtag #blackwomen this past week I found myself shaking my head once again. A poster on Twitter, who ironically Read More
The rates of suicide among black women are the lowest of any group. Why is this so, and why doesn’t Read More
– SATURDAY It was a good two weeks since I had seen *School Girl, so when she opened the door, Read More
This is one of the more illuminating character traits of girls to beta men, who would never try to broach the Read More
I just got off the phone with a writer from London. She was interviewing me for an up coming story Read More
A comment from a reader questioned on my previous post, which I stated that once girl is slotted you into the not-sexually-attraced zone, Read More
At the risk of sounding pessimistic [please trust that I am NOT a Scrooge], the reality is that the next Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
On most days, weeks, months, my libido is raging like an 18 year olds. My every waking moments are filled with Read More
Okay so a couple seals have apparently been broken and some trumpets sounded, with the thousands of birds falling from Read More
After a long day of contemplating once again what the real problem of our society is (you could say just Read More
This is a special post for the immature men that are in our lives. Yes there are some good brothas Read More
People always ask me why I haven’t been in a relationship, and I say, “Because I have yet to meet Read More
I have a quiet list of turn-offs. I’ve kept it quiet because it really makes no sense to anyone but Read More
I’ve always wanted a dog. Even in my younger days when I lived at home and my little sister begged Read More
I’ve been thinking about sex. A lot. Specifically, I’ve been thinking about our sisters in sex—prostitutes. Whores, ho’s, working girls, Read More
Though I live in Brooklyn, for the last month, I’ve been in Los Angeles taking care of family and it Read More
Mary, Mary, Mary. I somehow thought that with all of the growth you exude that you had come farther than What’s Read More
Autumn is alsmost here. Leaves are turning and nights are gradually getting colder. For those of us above the equator, Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
