I recently had a Tweet exchange with young woman on Twitter. She was annoyed that a man she had met Read More
Loveawake blog today wrote a post on the pursuit of happiness and if it’s worth it, it was a good Read More
The human spirit longs to realize lofty day dreams.Yet society longs to call us Icarus. As children we are easily Read More
In the last few months I have made a number of very important decisions. A number of them have been Read More
When you reach your twenties you begin to ask yourself a number of philosophical questions.What is my purpose.What is the Read More
This is one of the more illuminating character traits of girls to beta men, who would never try to broach the Read More
I just got off the phone with a writer from London. She was interviewing me for an up coming story Read More
A comment from a reader questioned on my previous post, which I stated that once girl is slotted you into the not-sexually-attraced zone, Read More
At the risk of sounding pessimistic [please trust that I am NOT a Scrooge], the reality is that the next Read More
As promised, I said I would write a follow up on the post where I carefully selected wording that sounded like Read More
Okay, I admit, this blog is helping me in the ladies department. Happy now? There, I admitted it, even after I Read More
Last night I had the privilege of sitting and speaking on a panel about relationships for the New York chapter of Read More
The title of this post is named after my father’s favorite drink. He, Harry Joe, died one year ago today. Read More
As I like to remind people every now and then, just because I write about my relationships doesn’t make me Read More
Dating…is…horribly awkward. In the past, I would spend hours fretting and asking myself (and others): What should I wear? Does Read More
There was a post I started to write on the plane ride over here about the biggest thing I had Read More
Dating in your 30s in Los Angeles (or any big city, really) is the pits. Unique to an arts city like Read More
I came across this story from The Atlantic recently and it amazed me how perfectly it fits into an issue I’ve been Read More
This is a topic that never goes out of style. Exploring sexuality safely within the confines of the dream world Read More
It’s 6:34 PM. The sun is moving towards New Jersey; soon it will be sinking behind the skyscrapers, creating a Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
There are untold stories of deep emotional entanglements in all of us. Much of the time, we don’t realize their Read More
I know some stupid ass selfish women… My facebook status read…immediately some of the men started to like and a Read More
By now, most of the Ninjerati is aware that Gwyneth Paltrow tweeted that it’s “N***as in paris for real” from Read More
People make fun of Canada all the time- as they should. We’re a nation of ridiculous people, places, and things. People Read More
