People always ask me why I haven’t been in a relationship, and I say, “Because I have yet to meet Read More
Less than a day (depending on where you are in the US, of course) until our beloved American Thanksgiving. (Well, Read More
“…while there have been quite a few entertaining Black movies produced in the last decade or so, the only ones Read More
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A woman files an application with a day care center looking to Read More
The last week was rough for me. In non-sex news, there have been problems with my healing — I broke Read More
A few days ago I read an article about the downturn the economy has taken. Jobs are being lost left Read More
Much like Asher Roth, I loved college. It was a time of much growth, discovery, and beaucoup sarcasm plus I went to Read More
Every morning when I wake up, I brush my teeth, take a shower, get out and proceed to applying lotion Read More
I know a lot of people swear they don’t use the bathroom at work. Quite frankly I think they’re full Read More
It’s pretty ’til I had to shovel it. Unless you get all of your news from TMZ or BET, you’ve Read More
I bust open the door with one swift man-kick to it’s balls…. Me: “Your God has arrived.” My loyal subjects: Read More
I come home, those fuckers are already wasted. I desperately need to catch up. I do the ceremonial superhero pose Read More
Self-handicapping was studied extensively in the 80’s and 90’s. It’s fully recognized by psychologists that has been found to have Read More
With finals in the rear view mirror, Miss Daisy can’t help but see the parellels between standardized testing and the Read More
Awhile back, I believe that I said I would post one of my message exchanges with one of the women Read More
You may well have heard of ‘demonstrating value’ in the context of meeting and attracting women. Indeed, it is an Read More
I’ve been busy playing Final Fantasy II and occasionally browsing the seduction blogs and forums, and I’m still seeing a Read More
On a recent vacation, a friend of mine made a statement that I should not get too jaded. The topic Read More
We cruise, date, shop and even dig up dirt on perspective dates on the internet. Gays seem to love the Read More
It’s been a long time coming. I’ve been meaning to write it for ages. But somehow I just kept putting Read More
It is funny how you believe everything is fine and deep inside you understand nothing is.It is funny how you Read More
Scott Ian of Anthrtax had this story to tell about Gene Simmons of Kiss: I heard a story about Gene Read More
I always like to look at the way that I got my lays in college versus the way that I Read More
This is a follow-up post to the post about being humble. A lot of guys want to know how to Read More
Standing to my right is a disheveled drunken 22 year old guy. A bartender plops down a plate of barbecue Read More
Tom asks: Hi V, I think i might have a problem with the lesson of “focus on yourself, but don’t Read More
I recently read one of Style’s latest emails in which he suggests using or creating a fictional character to help Read More
The last week has been tough with approaching. Work has been busy and I have started part time graduated courses. Read More
