Lesson of the 90′s.
A disastrously disease that feminism unleashed upon society was their complete disregard for young boys. From the moment feminism rained down from ivory towers and upon polite society the message was clear: Let us begin with the children, particularly little girls.
Girl Power was the mantra.
Girls rule, boys drool.
Girls were told to be proud of their gender and that world was “finally” theirs for the taking.
Boys were told that pretend playing with guns was bad.
Boys were told that they should be nice and subdued like the girls.
Running and roughhousing was bad.
Girls were given inspirational speeches, TV adverts, and guiding hands.
Boys were given Ritalin.
I myself remember the lessons that school imparted upon me. For a while I thought my father’s displays of the masculine were savage and not the way of a civilized world.
For a minute I was convinced that people should not own guns, judging a girl based on her appearance was loathsome , and my own gender was the reason things were so dreary in the world.
Yes Mrs. Teacher Miss, men did not work plowing fields, building towns, digging wells, and protecting their families from enemies. All they did was sit with their friends drinking alcohol and smoking (both terrible things as well) as the females of society toiled bare-foot in the kitchen with children hanging off their skirts.
There is a “proper” way to act around girls. You have to be amazingly nice to them. Help them whenever. Be their shoulder to cry on. She will see what a great guy you are and will like you. [..eventually after she’s spent her youth with the alpha males that never subscribed to elementary school lessons, but you get her in the end bub and that is a win nonetheless.]
However my consumption of this inculcation was quickly undone once I hit puberty.
I have recently run into a perfect visual aid of when my eyes truly peered at the world.
Behold:
Yes I was one of those youngins. Yes I thought that perhapse one day she would see that I was the right guy for her and she would stop finding herself falling for other guys that didn’t care.
Years of indoctrination eradicated in a moment. Natural selection.
We are told that we can overcome our prehistoric programing and become a civilized race. However the pursuit for libido satisfaction will not be fettered. Boys are taught a certain way to be around girls. They are taught to be their “girlfriends” instead an opposite. Destruction of the duality concept. However boys will act a certain way in order to get access to girls. Girls will never act another way.
Girls remain static while males adapt. Males are told that a certain adaption will work. When they don’t, genetic programming will revert to the old method.
Feminism forgot a very important tenant of male/female relations, females want alpha-males.
To all the boys out there that live with stars in their eyes and rainbows on their minds. To those boys that fall for their female “friend” I offer you one simple solution: Squash it.
You have showered her with your abundant investment and the returns have been dismal. Don’t become jaded, just understand that your investment strategy was the wrong one.
Start anew. This time wear baggier jeans.
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The Power of Teasing in Dating Game
Play To Your Strength’s, Work On Your Weaknesses
Acting Skills as a Dating Game Enhancer
The Power and Limits of Positivity in Dating Game
Advice for Aspiring Alpha: Quieting the Mind and Improving Flirtation