How to Ignore Beauty.
Many guys have asked me how to deal with “hot girls.” They claim it is difficult to hold their composure in the presence of God’s greatest gift: youthful attractive feminine allure.
Occcam’s Razor: Ignore the beauty.
However these same poor souls face another dilema. They do not understand what this looks like. They may either ignore a girl too harshly or the concept of ignoring beauty is just to foreign to them.
They never had men teach them how to tie themselves to a mast in order to conquer the siren’s wail.
Jimmy Carr is the one to watch. His handling of the situation textbook. His aura enticing. His voice unwaivering. His stance dominating. His eye playful. His motive to bed these birds.
He first acknowledges their attractive qualities and then continues on with his life. Lesson one.
He places his back to them, their beauty to him is common place. After engaging the crowd and establishing the spotlight on him he turns back to the girls and playfully banters with them. For those who have found the Mystery Method; this is what a neg looks like.
He continues on engaging with the crowd and periodically responds back to the girls. He is unafraid of their perceptions of him. He keeps them off balance. They aren’t sure how to handle him.
He says things that others would shy away from in polite society. The whole conversation is dominating by his views. No others matter. His spotlight. Your indignation and contrary opinions are inconsequential. Alpha mentality. He doesn’t care what you, I, and especially the bombshells behind him are thinking.
His world. You’re a guest.
Rufus is the nice-guy walking up to a hot girl approach to talking to hot girls. He is awkward around them. He is saying pleasant things. He isn’t challenging them. His hands are in his pocket. Defensive. Uncomfortable. I find him reprehensible.
At the end he attempts to take control of his environment by getting the girls on his arms and walking around as if he has won. Nay. He has lost. You can see it in the awkwardness of him asking the girls to join him, the walk, and the subsequent seperation.
Carr didn’t need to touch the girls to feel special. Rufus did.
Nice Guy Shtick Method: hugging girls to feel like a “playa” and hope that your ability to hug tons of girls in public will make other guys jealous of you’re “skillz.”
The third guy is a bumbling fool who has already killed any hope of a threesome with these girls. In his mind it is impossible. He is everything you should not be.
Your hands give life to imagination. The world is molded by your hands. Act accordingly.
Study Carr’s interaction towards the end extensively.
He isn’t afraid to let the girls know that he is a sexual being and that he is unabashed. The attraction grows in their eyes. Notice how he is sitting in his chair in comparison to the other participants.
When I say ignore beauty I mean do what Carr has done in this clip. Do not let it tie your tongue or glaze your gaze. Acknowledge that it is there and that it does not hold you ensnared in its tentacles.
Be bold. Do not hide under a false glossy veneer. A female is intuitive and she knows when you are being shifty. A female is also intriqued by the man who does not fear retribution for the words he shares. Fearlessness.
More importantly the hottest girls in the place are the ones that get the least number of guys approaching them. 95% of guys believe that they will get rejected by an bombshell. This means that 95% of guys are not talking to them. This means that 95% of guys are talking to average or below average looking females.
This means that you have a better shot talking to a hot girl than an average looking girl.
Your eyes are finally begin to widen in understanding.
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