5 warning signs that you may be dating a BPD chick
5. Super Emotional
If a chick tells you she loves you after only knowing you for a month be very wary. It’s not normal no matter how much time you spend together in that month. BPD’s are very emotional and seem quite intense with their emotions. If your a guy who is not use to having a girl gush over you. This may seem very flattering, however their moods change from very happy to sad like their bi-polar, anything can trigger it.
4. Very Manipulative
These chicks may blow up your phone and give you tons of attention. At first you may be flattered espeically if she is a beautiful girl, but this is all part of their way of keeping you in control. These women use their looks, kinky sex, food, money, gifts etc. To keep you “blind”. They’re very manipulative they love drama, and will use drama to keep things exciting. On top of that they lie about little things, at times to make you jealous so they feel cared for.
3. High Sex drive
These women tend to be freaks and nymphos. My ex from college was a nympho, the fattie aka former Vegas showgirl was a freak (she loved playing porn while we smashed) My ex BPD from 2007 wanted sex all the time. We would get into an argument and next thing you know we’d have sex. It just wasn’t regular sex, sex in the bushes, sex at random house parties, sex when people were in the house (it turned her on knowing someone else could hear). Just sex in random areas. BPD chicks are freaks.
2 “Don’t leave me”
BPD’s have a huge fear of being abandoned. The ones I’ve dated would always talk about their ex’s and how they left her and how they were the perfect girlfriend. I believed them, I mean why wouldn’t I? most of them cooked, cleaned, gave me the ass whenever I wanted and treated me like a king! I thought those other guys were crazy. I remember I would be railing the hell outta my ex-ex and the whole time she would moan “Solo don’t leave me”. I didn’t think anything of it because I was just happy to be getting some. When I broke up with her, that’s when shit hit the fan and the true psycho came out.
1. Crying during Sex
This has happened to me a few times in my life, and with one chick I know for sure she was BPD because 2 years after our relationship ended she was diagnosed by a psychiatrist(not just as a BPD but other crap as well bi-polar, personality disorder etc). You may be smashing your girlfriend and all of a sudden she starts crying. For example
“What’s wrong” I said Stopping
“Nothing”
“Am I going to hard?”
“No your fine, I’m just so happy right now, keep going” she says as tears go down her face
Of course as a guy seeing a women cry while you smash her gives you the ultimate ego boost, part of you is thinking “Yeah I’m tearing this up, my pipe game the best” and another part of you is thinking “yo she crying this is weird” but honestly you don’t care, cause you getting some and while you dicking her down she keeps professing her love for you as she cries (aww how romantic). In a kinky way it’s a turn on but If this were to happen to me now I would grab my clothes and run for the hills. All the chicks that pull this stunt tend to be psycho’s
Of course you don’t know a BPD is a BPD till it’s over, that’s when they go batshit crazy, but If you notice 3 out of those 5 things, well you have been warned. If you haven’t done your research I suggest that you do, there are tons of websites out there with great material.
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