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QUESTION: Internet marriage agencies publish photo of models to receive money for the false addresses from lonely Western men. How do I know that your women are real?

QUESTION: There are a lot of free dating services, why should I pay you for e-mail exchanging with the person I never met. Corresponding with a Russian woman is just a scam to make me send her money.

QUESTION: How can I get lady's address and phone number?

QUESTION: How can I send a letter to lady?

QUESTION: I'm wondering if you could keep me updated when new ladies join to your agency?

QUESTION: Why do the ladies on your site want to find a foreign guy?

QUESTION: How many ladies should I write to, to ensure I get a response?

QUESTION: I am 53, does this matter?

QUESTION: Marrying a Russian woman is a difficult and costly exercise,and one barely will succeed.

QUESTION: I'm interested in a membershp and also want to order one additional address. Can I pay by registered mail? What are your alternative method of payment.

QUESTION: I have been surfing your excellent web site and figure the ladies have an orientation to European and American men, as a single Australian male will this put me at a disadvantage due to Australians location.

QUESTION: I am getting ready to write to some of your ladies, Do they have to pay to write back to me?

QUESTION: What is the point of me sending a letter if I do not know if she understands English?

QUESTION: What about having the girl I choose come to visit me in Arizona instead of me going there?

QUESTION: I have visited your website and am very impressed by your services. I am VERY interested in working with you. I have learned about the problems of modern American relationships the hard way, having been twice married to modern women who were too involved in their careers and my bank accounts. However, I have not given up on the hope that I will one day find a woman who will really love me and care for me forever.

QUESTION: How do I know if you have letters translated for a lady?

QUESTION: I would like to arrange a live webcam conference chat with your client. What it takes?

QUESTION: Internet marriage agencies publish photo of models to receive money for the false addresses from lonely Western men. How do I know that your women are real?
ANSWER: Since the day we started our service we received many letters with questions and concerns about how men can be sure that our ladies really exist, that they write letters back themselves, not our managers and etc. So we decided to set up a LIVE web camera in our office so that you could see ladies come and go, take their letters and writing you the answers. We hope that this will be a powerful instrument to increase your trust in our service. All the girls on this site are actively trying to find a foreign partner for marriage or a long-term relationship. We ask all of our ladies, on a regular basis, if they wish to be removed from our database so we only list the girls who are actively looking for a partner.

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QUESTION: There are a lot of free dating services, why should I pay you for e-mail exchanging with the person I never met. Corresponding with a Russian woman is just a scam to make me send her money.
ANSWER: Your risk to be scammed by a woman advertising herself at a free site is huge. We are a legitimate and professional agency and always screen the ladies. If there are strong proofs that a lady is dishonest, we remove her immediately. Anyway you won't get a wife for nothing. If you prefer to correspond with ladies in order to establish an effective contact before visiting them, you must also be ready for some expenses. Probably, you would like to send a gift to your lady, or a book about your city/country. But do not send money to a lady herself.

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QUESTION: How can I get lady's address and phone number:
ANSWER: If you are a member then you can retrieve lady's contact information FREE OF CHARGE if you click on "retrieve address" button on the lady's profile page. You will be directed to another page where you may enter your e-mail address and password. If you data are correct you will receive lady's address and phone number shortly. Members allowed to get up to 5 addresses per month. Any additional address must be paid according to our price. You can find it our on "SERVICE" page.

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QUESTION: How can I send a letter to lady?
ANSWER: To send a lady a letter, simply go to her profile page and click on the button that says, "Send me a letter". You will now be prompted to enter you email address and password. If you have never used our service, register as a new member and follow the instructions. Once you have logged in, you can type your letter into the letter box and attached pictures. When we receive your letter we will forward it to the lady, translate it, if translation is necessary.

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QUESTION: I'm wondering if you could keep me updated when new ladies join to your agency?
ANSWER: We regularly improve and add more information to the site. We get new ladies joining us all the time. When we have a sufficient numbers, we update our database.

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QUESTION: Why do the ladies on your site want to find a foreign guy?
ANSWER: There are some reasons. For instance, the hard drinking of Russian men is not a myth. Also you may know that recently we've had a census in Russia. The results are really interesting for us. Perhaps, you're going to get another fact explaining the desire of Russian women to marry foreign men.

According to preliminary data we have 1000 men per 1147 women. In comparison to the previous census the number of ladies is growing while the number of men is falling.
The turning age point when the number of women starts to exceed the number of men is 32! Thus, young women simply lack men. The reasons are wars, drugs, illnesses…

Actually, Russian women are just forced to broaden their bounds in search for the husband! And there is nothing amazing in that.

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QUESTION: How many ladies should I write to, to ensure I get a response?
ANSWER: You should start with about ten ladies you like, write to them by postal mail if your in no hurry for a reply, or via our mail forwarding service, if you would like to get a reply more quickly, or can't be bothered to address and post ten letters in one go. Remember to include a good photo of yourself. Then sit back and see how it goes, and the number of replies you get. If you don't get many replies, revise your letter or expectations accordingly and try again.

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QUESTION: I am 53, does this matter?
ANSWER: No, it is not a problem, if only you are not looking for a young wife. In Russia the marriages with great disparity in years are not accustomed. So if you don't want to find a girl who will use you as a transport for crossing the border, then look for a woman close to you in age!
Start your search beginning at least from 40 years old women! These women look well and have an idea of family life and wisdom. They are unpretentious and can do a lot about the house. Finally they are closer to you inside, than 20 years old ones and your family life will not be clouded by misunderstanding.
So, age is not a handicap, if you are wise enough in the choice of your life soulmate!

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QUESTION: Marrying a Russian woman is a difficult and costly exercise, and one barely will succeed.
ANSWER: Really, it is so: it costs a lot to marry a Russian woman. And probably, you can't imagine how much it is. First you pay money for the correspondence and presents, then you make a few trips to get to know her better. Every day you call her from over the ocean to wish her 'good night'… Then you undertake obligations in front of your country that you will supply her with all necessary things, marry her, spend money for her adaptation in the country, learning the language. Probably, you even move to another town so that she could find a job or good courses, give education to her child…

This enumeration can be endless. But let's stop! Just think what you are choosing: it is not a college, not a house, not a work of art, not a piece of jewelry… You are choosing more - a life partner! A person! A person to spend the rest of your life with. A person who will be with you in grieve and joy, in sickness and in good health. A person who will make your life cozy.

But why is it worth to seek exactly a Russian woman? Not only because Russian women are very beautiful, like all Slav women. Not only because they are well-educated. Not only because they possess strong character. Russian women are first of all family-oriented! For them the word "feminism" sounds like a swear-word. And they will never place career higher than family values.

If you need such a woman, then welcome to Russia! :)

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QUESTION: I'm interested in a membershp and also want to order one additional address. Can I pay by registered mail? What are your alternative method of payment.
ANSWER: For customers who are unable to pay by credit card, we can make alternative arrangements, including Western Union payments, money order or check.

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QUESTION: I have been surfing your excellent web site and figure the ladies have an orientation to European and American men, as a single Australian male will this put me at a disadvantage due to Australians location.
ANSWER: Most of these women don't have any great preference regarding citizenship. I am sure many would like to be close to home in Europe. Many are just looking for the right man in which case, location is just not all that important. I have come across some ladies who expressed a dislike for American men, just as I have met ladies who have a dislike for German men, or any other race you care to mention. It's really down to what sort of guy you are, and what the lady in question is looking for. Living in one western country provides fairly much the same sort of opportunities and life style as any other western country, be it America, England, France, Germany or Australia. You will have no problems as an Australian.

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QUESTION: I am getting ready to write to some of your ladies, Do they have to pay to write back to me?
ANSWER: No, the ladies are not charged for replying to you.

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QUESTION: What is the point of me sending a letter if I do not know if she understands English?

ANSWER: The ladies English (German, French etc.) ability is shown on her profile page (5=Excellent, 0=Poor). If she doesn't speak English, and you write to her in English she must either translate the letter using a dictionary, or ask a friend to translate it, if she knows one who can. This means it takes far longer to get a reply, and she may not even reply at all. This is why we provide a translation facility with our email forwarding service. This service is free and does not need additional payment.

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QUESTION: What about having the girl I choose come to visit me in Arizona instead of me going there?
ANSWER: You can only ask her, you have nothing to loose. This is very unlikely because you will have problems obtaining a visa and the lady is unlikely to accept if she has never met you.

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QUESTION: I have visited your website and am very impressed by your services. I am VERY interested in working with you. I have learned about the problems of modern American relationships the hard way, having been twice married to modern women who were too involved in their careers and my bank accounts. However, I have not given up on the hope that I will one day find a woman who will really love me and care for me forever.
ANSWER: One of the reasons why a lot of guys look elsewhere for love. The thinking in the former USSR is still that of twenty or thirty years ago, ie you marry your husband for life and look after him. Most Russian are not really interested in working, but in raising a family.

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QUESTION: How do I know if you have letters translated for a lady?
ANSWER: Each lady is given an English ability, from 1 to 5. Only ladies with ability 4-5 can reliably write and translate their own letters. The abilities are defined as follows Level 0 - No knowledge. Level 1 - Some forgotten knowledge from school or university. Level 2 - Understands written text with help of dictionary. Level 3 - Understands written text with some help of dictionary can write a little or speak on the phone a little. Level 4 - Understands written text, can write and speak on the phone (almost no communication barrier). Level 5 - Fluent language ability.

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QUESTION: I would like to arrange a live webcam conference chat with your client. What it takes?
ANSWER: Send your e-mail with request to livechat@russian-mates.com and tell us what time is most suitable for you to be online. We will contact the lady and arrange it for you. We allow two chat sessions per month. Each chat session duration is 1 hour. You may order an additional session if send your request to the address we gave above. We charge $1 per minute for live webcam conference.

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